For your consideration…
A few days ago we had a message about the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as your would have them do onto you.” When we think about the Golden Rule our focus is on how we treat others. Its focus is on being kind to others and helping others. its focus is to do no harm.
Today’s message’s focus is on the flip side of the Golden Rule. It tells us we should expect the same from others. We should not settle for a relationship of any kind that does not treat us with the kindness and respect we deserve.
Healthy relationships are two-sided and balanced. Expectations should be balanced and equal. Of course, not balanced in everything. For example, someone is good at organization while the other is creative. The roles balance each other out.
The focus today is to not minimize ourselves and don’t let others do it either. Dr. Steve Maraboli writes this about relationships, “If you put up with it, you’re going to end up with it. Set the standard you want and don’t settle for less.”
That is the HOPE. And so it is.
Bit by bit, piece by piece, HOPE by HOPE action steps anyone can take…
-Affirm…“I am loved.”
-Remember…You are the keeper of the light. Wherever you go, there can be no darkness.
-Meditate/pray…ask…”What is my next step for my highest good and the highest good of all?”
-Drink lots of water.
-Get outdoors and take in at least 10 deep breaths.
-Set goals for healthy relationships.
What made me smile yesterday…
-A beautiful day.
-Catching up with Alex and Mary.
-Beth is home from rehab.
-Dinner with Jul.
-A good book.
Love, Blessings, and Gratitude,
Rev. Chris
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