For your consideration…
Over the years we have had many messages about gift giving…and receiving. The HOPE is that the giver and receiver are clear on the intention and the exchange is made.
But…isn’t there always a but…that does not always happen and we have been reminded that we are responsible for our intention only. We can not make someone gift us or control whether they choose to receive our gift.
We are reminded of this example because it is like that in relationships. We can not control others’ actions, thoughts, words, etc. We can HOPE they feel the same way as we do. We can HOPE they respond as we think they should but we can not force it. Our perceptions and expectations do not necessarily match. Think about the age-old question “Honey, does my butt look big in this dress?” How a partner sees the situation and thinks he should respond often does not match their partner’s expectation.
When we fail to remember that people do not see things the same way as we do and we get caught up in our own expectations, we open ourselves up for unnecessary heartache…heartact that is not intended.
On the flip side. we are not meant to be doormats. While our expectations may not be the same, intentions should align. With family members, partners, co-workers, friends, etc. we have a right to expect respect and kindness. We may not receive it in the way we thought, the intention is there.
That is the HOPE. And so it is.
Bit by bit, piece by piece, HOPE by HOPE action steps anyone can take…
-Affirm…“I am loved.”
-Meditate/pray…ask…”What is my next step for my highest good and the highest good of all?”
-Drink lots of water.
-Get outdoors and take in at least 10 deep breaths.
-Remember it is the thought…the intention…that counts.
What made me smile yesterday…
-A beautiful day.
-A great thunderstorm during the night.
-A good day of baking.
-A good book.
Love, Blessings, and Gratitude,
Rev. Chris
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