You Are Not a Victim

For your consideration……

How you think about or “frame” your life matters. Are you a victim or a survivor? Do you endure or manifest? Do you see the difference here. It is like the glass half full or half empty question. It is how you look at things. Most importantly how you look at your life.

I have to be honest here. The message I was given today was tougher than I am making it sound. I am softening it up because I am the deliverer of HOPE. I feel that my message should always come from that place. It should always feel HOPEful.

But the essence of the message is this. We are full participants, full creators, of our life. Remember we were given free will. So where we stand is from what we created. And we always have the power to change it. Are we alone? No. We always (24/7) have help available to us through our personal guardian angel, guides and God and his army of angels waiting to be asked. They are waiting for you to take the lead. They are waiting for you to invest in you. They are waiting for you to want your highest outcome. They are waiting for you to love yourself unconditionally.

I have on my reference page a link to EFT, frequently just referred to as tapping. There are also many many UTube videos on it. EFT changes your energy through tapping on various energy points in your body. Many doctors use it. It is frequently used in Senior Care facilities. It is just an amazing tool that I personally use frequently. The key phrase in EFT is “I love, forgive and accept myself unconditionally.” That is the changer. That is the key to changing from a victim to survivor or better yet manifestor.

I love the movie, “The Holiday”. It is light and has a happy ending. Just my kind of movie. There is a phrase in there that I love. It is in a love scene but it doesn’t matter. Because its meaning for all of us is still the same. It is this,

“You are already better than you think you are.”

Whatever works for you, is for you to decide. You have a choice. You always have a choice. But it is absolutely imperative that you believe in the power of you. That you believe in your own perfection. That you love, forgive and accept yourself unconditionally. That is how you achieve success and open yourself up to all of the gifts and opportunities the universe has to offer you. That is the HOPE.

Bit by bit, piece by piece, hope by hope action steps anyone can take……

-Meditate for as long as you can. You are perfect. Focus on that. Focus on aligning your chakras.

-Take some deep breaths, at least 10, outdoors. Remember, you can always do more sets of 10 spaced throughout the day.

-Drink lots of water.

-Don’t you just love this time of year with all of the fresh fruits and vegetables? Partake.

-This is a prayer from the Doreen Virtue Archangel Michael oracle card deck that is pertinent to today’s message.

Thank you for letting me lean on your strength and for reminding me of my personal power. Please guide me to manifest and heal according to Divine will, creating peace and blessings for everyone involved.

-Also, a funny message came through for Jackie and Bethy, “And the beat goes on.”

What made me smile yesterday…..

-What didn’t? I had a wonderful day with my daughter. She is in so much pain but what a trooper! Wow, I finally feel good about my own back. I will never complain about it again.

-My friend Carol and I went to a “drumming” event. It is just good for the soul. That is all there is too it. Then we treated ourselves to a cupcake. Definitely not good for the figure but it also is definitely good for the soul.

-Two nights in a row with the doors wide open, I have fallen to sleep with the amazing “sounds of the night”. They too are good for the soul.

Love, Blessings and Gratitude,

Chris