For your consideration……

Does it ever feel like we are being sabotaged? We are doing all of this hard work trying to live our life purpose but find ourselves in toxic conversations. Sometimes they seem to be everywhere; at home, work, our clubs, in stores etc. If it feels toxic, if it feels like it is wrecking your day, if it feels like it is sucking everything positive from the room, then it is.

We are reminded that we have a choice. We always have a choice. Take charge. Turn the dialog around. Inject some humor. Offer a new perspective or “pep talk”. If we are the authority figure, maybe we just have to get tough and set the conversation straight. Smiles and encouragement go a long way. Set the standard. Raise the bar.

However, if all that fails, walk away. That does not mean we should not address the situation. It means it is not the right time. You have heard the saying, “two wrongs don’t make a right.” Well more negative dialog added to the mix will not make it right……even if you are agreeing. If it is all negative, it will never be right.

Want to change the world?

Change the conversation.

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We are being asked to choose to stay in the light in thoughts, words and deeds.

That is the HOPE. And so it is.

Bit by bit, piece by piece, HOPE by HOPE action steps anyone can take……

-Meditate/pray….remember we can always go back to calm through our breath and meditation.

-Drink lots of water.

-Get outdoors and take in at least 10 deep breaths.

-Welcome spring and mirror its enthusiasm.

What made me smile yesterday…..

-A free morning.

-Fun 5th graders.

-A dentist appointment. My hygienist always makes me laugh.

-Wow…our yard is green, lush, mowed and edged……beautiful.

Love, Blessings and Gratitude,

Rev. Chris.

 

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